Showing posts with label Lydia M. Ruble. Show all posts
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Saturday, October 6, 2018

Visit to Chariton Iowa

A Journey Through Time in Lucas County, Iowa

On a recent road trip with my father, we took a detour through memory lane—quite literally. Our destination was Chariton, Iowa, but first, we made a meaningful stop in the quiet mining town of Lucas County, where my dad spent his early childhood in the 1940s.

We wound our way down narrow gravel roads, bordered by simple homes and rolling hills, in search of the place where he once lived. Though the original house was no longer standing—replaced by a newer dwelling—the landscape around it remained uncannily familiar. As if time had paused for his return, everything was just as he remembered it: the home of his childhood friend Donnie Stover still sat just below, and the old schoolhouse still stood, silent and dignified on the hill.

Driving through that small town with my dad was like watching a sepia-toned reel of his youth come alive. It wasn’t hard to imagine a young Jacky Brower running barefoot on those gravel roads, walking to school, or playing near the railroad tracks. His stories took on new life as we stood in the very spots they once unfolded.

Dad lived in Lucas until around 1956, when his mother, Edna Lois Lovell-Brower, and his brother Mack (short for James Howard McClelland Brower) moved the family to Des Moines, Iowa—a new chapter in a life already rich with small-town adventure and close-knit community memories.

Photo of young Jack Brower (photo enhanced) 



Donnie Stover and Jack Brower (photo enhanced) 



A Sacred Stop at Arnold Cemetery

One of the most meaningful moments of our road trip through Lucas County, Iowa was visiting the Arnold Cemetery, the final resting place of several of my ancestors. This small, quiet cemetery sits tucked away off a long gravel road branching from 170th Avenue, near Liberty Center, bordering the edges of Lacona.

Surrounded by rolling farmland and open sky, the cemetery feels both secluded and timeless. As we stood among the stones, we paused to pay respects to my grandmother, Edna Lois Lovell-Brower, who rests there. It was a powerful and grounding experience—being in the same land where generations of my family lived, worked, and laid down their roots.

Behind the cemetery, the open land stretches for miles—land that once belonged to Isaac Mills and Lydia Ruble, who lived and farmed there many years ago. According to the 1912 Liberty Township Plat Map of Lucas County, their farm was located near what was then known as Thompson Cemetery, now known as Arnold Cemetery.

Being there—where history, memory, and legacy intersect—was a quiet but profound reminder of where we come from, and the lives that shaped our own. It brought my family's story full circle, from past to present.

If you didn’t already know where to turn, you’d likely miss the narrow gravel road leading to Arnold Cemetery, hidden just off 170th Avenue, near Liberty Center, Iowa. Thankfully, with the help of our cousin Frank Crooks, we found our way. He guided us to the place where so many of our ancestors rest—on a quiet hilltop surrounded by the most breathtaking rolling hills of Chariton.

As we turned in, I was struck by what I hadn’t expected: the cemetery is nestled on a rise, its gravestones scattered like sentinels along the hill, looking out over miles and miles of uninterrupted countryside. The wind carried the scent of rain, and the sky above was stormy, which only deepened the emotion of the visit.

At the very top of the hill stands the tombstone of Elias Mills, surrounded by the resting places of his immediate family. Some of the smaller gravestones nearby are gently hidden beneath overgrown brush, but they are still there—quiet reminders of lives once lived. Elias was the brother of my second great-grandfather, Isaac Mills, who married Lydia Ruble and farmed the land that lies just beyond the cemetery’s edge.

There is something sacred about this place. Despite the wind and the gathering storm clouds, a deep peace settled around us. Acres and acres of lush green hills stretched in every direction—nature’s own tribute to those buried here and the loved ones who once stood in mourning, saying their final goodbyes.

My grandmother, Edna Lois Lovell-Brower, is laid to rest near the end row of the cemetery. Just beside her is my father's headstone—though thankfully, he is still very much alive. Seeing his name already engraved beside hers added a surreal layer to the moment, a reminder of life's circle.

Without a doubt, this is where I, too, would want to be laid to rest someday—beside my grandmother, among generations of family, on this peaceful hill. But hopefully, not for another 50 years or so!









Dad (Jack Brower) and cousin Frank Crooks paying respect to relatives buried here. 

On our way out we made a stop to view what once was the James Brower and Sadie Brower (Mills) farm, which property use to be owned by his mother in law, Lydia Mills (Isaac Mills wife) in 1912, or perhaps J.B. Curtis.

Today's Google map shows the old James Brower farm occupied next to the creek.


The Red Barn on 170th Avenue

As we left Arnold Cemetery, our path took us further down 170th Avenue, past sweeping green hills and quiet farmland. Not far from the cemetery—just across 570th Avenue and a short way down the road—sits a property that holds deep significance for our family. On the left side, nestled among the rolling fields, stands a home…and the old red barn.

The barn still stands proud, weathered by time but lovingly preserved. Years ago, during a restoration by the previous owners, a single board was discovered with the initials “F.A.C.” carved into the wood. When Frank Crooks, our cousin, visited the site, he immediately recognized those were his own initials—Frank A. Crooks—engraved during his childhood when he used to play in that very barn. The new owners, touched by the story, chose to keep the board with the barn, a tribute to the history held within its walls.

As I stood gazing at the barn, I couldn’t help but feel a mixture of wonder and sorrow. It was here, in this very place, that my great-grandfather ended his life in 1920—a tragic chapter that still echoes through generations. I thought of my great-grandmother, Sadie, suddenly widowed, left to run the farm and raise her children—John Howard Brower, Mae Brower, and Anna Brower—on her own.

The hardship she must have faced is hard to imagine. And yet, despite the heavy past, the land itself seems to radiate strength and peace. These hills are among the most beautiful I’ve seen in Iowa, stretching out like a patchwork of endurance and grace.

The farm, passed through time and hands, now belongs to new owners, but the spirit of those who came before still lingers in the quiet rustle of the wind and the sturdy red barn standing watch over it all.

A visit to Goshen Cemetery

Our final stop was to Goshen Cemetery—this quiet resting place where our Brower family originally settled in Iowa in the mid-1800s. The cemetery lies just beneath the old Goshen Church, nestled peacefully in the rolling hills.

As I made my way to Jeremiah Brower’s tombstone, I passed the graves of the Stumbaugh family. These were the same Stumbaughs who traveled by covered wagon alongside my 2nd great-grandfather Jeremiah Brower, eventually settling on a neighboring farm. Also nearby rests Sarah’s uncle, James Quincy Buffington. Sarah Woods, Jeremiah’s wife, was the sister of Barbara Woods, wife of James Stumbaugh. Their mother, Susanna Buffington, was the daughter of Joseph X. Buffington and Chloe Harvey—another thread in the fabric of our ancestry.

Finally, I reached the tombstone of Jeremiah Brower. To my surprise, and contrary to the digital images found on websites like FindAGrave, there is only one tall, shared monument for Jeremiah John Brower, his wife Sarah Jane, and their daughter Eliza. Each side of the stone is engraved, and Jeremiah’s age is clearly marked: 71 years, 7 months, and 6 days. In old photos, this detail is hard to see, but in person, it’s perfectly legible.

Next to Jeremiah’s marker is a very small stone that simply reads "Mother." I can only assume this marks the resting place of his wife, Sarah Jane Woods. The small stone lies between Jeremiah’s monument and a standalone tombstone for their daughter Martha.

The most touching moment came when I watched my father gently clear moss from Jeremiah's stone—a quiet gesture of connection across the generations. A priceless moment.

If only Jeremiah could speak from the grave , may he would tell us who his parents were!







Sunday, November 27, 2016

Lydia Ruble Obituary


Lydia Ruble born 04 Aug 1827, Warren County, Ohio. Daughter to Henry Ruble and Mahala Martin, wife to Isaac Joseph Mills. 

Obituary
of
Mrs. Lydia Mills

Chariton Herald Newspaper
Thu, Feb 14, 1918 Chariton Iowa Page : 4

Lydia Ruble was born in Warren County, Ohio, August 4th, 1827 and died at the home of her daughter, Mrs. Sadie Brower, near Lacona, February 11th, 1918, her age being 90 years, 6 months and 7 days. 

She moved when quite young to Warren County, Indiana, where she grew to womanhood. In September, 1844, she was united in marriage to Isaac Mills, brother of Elias Mills of Liberty Center. To this union were born eleven children, all but one preceding her to the Great Beyond. Mrs. Sadie Brower is the surviving daughter, with whom she made her home and who was the only child left to comfort her. She has five living grandchildren and six great grandchildren. 

Mr. and Mrs Mills came to Iowa in 1851 and settled on a farm, four miles southwest of Lacona. Her husband passed away on July 5th, 1873. She with her family, resided on the farm until the spring of 1902, when with her son and his wife she moved to Lacona, where she made her home after her sons death with her daughter in law, Mrs. May Mills, until in December, 1916. Since then her home has been with her daughter Mrs. Brower, where she went peacefully to rest. Everyone who knew her loved her. She professed faith in Christ when young and became a member of the United Brethren church. She gave cheerfully to the support of the gospel. The funeral services were held at the home on Tuesday and were conducted by Rev. E. W. Curtis with interment in the Arnold Cemetery. 




Sunday, November 24, 2013

James Franklin Mills


James Franklin Mills was born 14 Oct 1847 in possibly Warren County, Indiana or Penn, Jefferson Iowa. He is the son of Isaac Joseph Mills born 03 Mar 1825 in North Carolina and Lydia M. Ruble born 04 Aug 1827 in Belmont, Ohio. James Franklin Mills married Lydia Nyswonger on 12 Mar 1871 in Lucas County, Iowa. His wife Lydia Nyswonger was the daughter of James Nyswonger and Elizabeth Lowery. 

I do not have a death date for James Franklin Mills at this time. I found his wife remarried and living in King County, California after 1878.  I believe she remarried twice, once to a Mr. Bush and the other to a Mr. Crye. 

James had two children with Lydia; Elizabeth Lydia 'Eliza' Mills born Abt. 1871 and Joseph Mills b. Abt. 1874. 

This framed picture of James Franklin Mills was given to my father as is with a small note tucked up in the back of the frame. It appears to read that James was presenting this photo to his baby sister Sadie (Sarah Elizabeth Mills who was born 1866), but it could read Lydia Ruble who was his mother. He was 19 years old in this picture and it's dated 1866. 


Vermilion County, Illinois and North Carolina Quakers - Possible Mills relative

The back of this picture does not say who this man is, but the photography studio stamp on the back reads "Vermilion County, Illinois". The photo may have been passed down to Sarah Elizabeth Mills who was the daughter of Lydia Ruble-Mills born 04 Aug 1827, daughter of Henry Ruble and Mahaila Martin. Lydia was married to Isaac Joseph Mills born 03 Mar 1825 in North Carolina, he is the son of Peter Mills born 02 Mar 1800 in North Carolina and Mary Jane Stanley. Peter is the son of Benoni Mills born bt 1760 in Deep River, Guilford County, North Carolina, married to Mary Thompson also born in Deep River, Guilford County, North Carolina. 

My ancestors from these families were New Garden MM Quaker families and found in Guilford County, North Carolina, Perry Twp., Wayne, Indiana and a few of Benoni's children, namely James Mills born 06 Nov 1796 in Deep River, Guilford County, North Carolina, was also found living in Sidell, Vermilion, Illinois after 1840 until his death on 25 Mar 1869 in Sidell, Vermilion, Illinois. 

It is impossible to know who the man is in this picture by doing basic genealogy, but it is most likely a close relative to Sarah Elizabeth Mills, daughter of Isaac Joseph Mills. 



Friday, November 15, 2013

Greenberry Martin Ruble (also known as Greenbury Ruble) son of Henry Ruble and Mahala Martin

This is a picture/postcard I received from the Frank Crooks' collection of family pictures that he passed down to me. 

This postcard was sent from a niece of Lydia M. Ruble-Mills, daughter of Henry Ruble and Mahaila Martin and wife of Isaac Mills. 

The postcard is from Philomath, Benton County, Oregon.  



After much research I found one niece of Lydia Ruble's living in Philomath, Oregon. I confirmed this with newspaper articles posted in the Chariton Herald Patriot which is now digital. 

Ref: Chariton Herald Patriot - Thurs. Oct. 28, 1909 page 3: Amanda is listed in the  as visiting from Philomath, Oregon. She is Amanda Newth. Article reads:  "Mrs. T.N. Primm enjoyed a visit of a few days last week from her sister, Mrs. E. Manely, of Lucas and cousins Mrs. Amanda Newth of Philomath, Oregon."

Ref: Chariton Herald Patriot, Dec. 21, 1922, page 2: "Friends and relatives here received the news of the death of Dr. Newth, which occurred at his home November 29th, at Philomath, Oregon. Mrs. Newth will be remembered as Miss Amanda Ruble and who lived near Lacona for several years. Her many friends here extend sympathy to her."
Lydia is mentioned as "Aunt" in the postcard below and the person the niece refers to who is "Pa" which if "Pa" is in reference to Amanda's father, this is Lydia's brother Greenbury Ruble also known as Greenberry Ruble.

Lucas County History Book

 Page 694

RUBLE, GREENBURY farmer section nine post office Lacona. Born July 31 1833 in Warren county Indiana. In 1851 came to Iowa with his people who located in this vicinity. They were among the very first settlers of the township. He spent his boyhood in farming and at the age of twenty three began working at the carpenter trade which he has since followed in connection with farming. He was married in 1863 to Miss Nancy J Rodgers of Ohio. They have five children living Mary E Alta E Laura B George O and Manda (Amanda). Three are deceased. He was enrolled October 31 1864 in company C 4th Iowa infantry and was discharged in June following. He owns a farm of 143 acres which he is steadily bringing under cultivation Mrs Ruble died May 5 1876.

Greenberry Ruble is buried in the Arnold Cemetery.


THE CHARITON HERALD
Chariton, Iowa
Thursday, October 12, 1893

DIED - Mr. Green Ruble, formerly of Liberty township, and was buried in the Arnold cemetery last Wednesday, October 4.

Mr. Ruble moved to this state from Indiana in the year 1850 and was a respected citizen of this township until the spring of 1887 when he, with his family, moved to Dakota where they have been living until his death, which occurred October 1, 1893.

He was a soldier in the war of the rebellion, serving his country faithfully till the close of the war.

He leaves five children and a host of relatives and friends to mourn his loss. His wife died several years since. May God comfort the bereaved ones.




Marriage Certificate of James Allen Brower and Sarah Elizabeth Mills

This original marriage certificate was provided by Frank Crooks who is the son of Anna Brower, daughter of James Allen Brower. I'm forever grateful for Frank's contribution to our family history.


James Allen Brower from Lucas County, Iowa, married Sady E. Mills (Sarah E. Mills), of Warren County, Iowa. Witness: Lydia Mills (mother) and A. W. Brower (Albert W. Brower - brother) on 01 Jan 1896.

Monday, June 18, 2012

James Allen Brower, wife Sarah Mills and son John Howard Brower.




This is a picture of my Great Grandfather James Allen Brower, who was the son of Jeremiah John Brower and Sarah Jane Woods and with him is his wife Sarah Elizabeth Mills, daughter of Isaac Joseph Mills and Lydia M. Ruble and their son, my Grandfather, John Howard Brower.